Sometimes the best I can do is grit my teeth and grudgingly endure a situation.
In Jean Klein's writing I came across a concept that felt more supportive to me. Klein says that accepting a situation means listening to it.
Klein goes on to say that listening, in this sense, is not something that you do with just your ears. Rather, you listen with your whole being.
You patiently listen, without an agenda or a deadline, and the situation gradually reveals itself to you.
Perhaps the situation simply evaporates.
Or, if it continues, you slowly come to see it in a larger context.
Whatever happens, there is likely to be some sort of movement. You probably won't feel as stuck as you previously did.
Listening feels to me like an easier recommendation to follow than accepting.
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